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19 octobre 2017

Dear Guy Friends & Colleagues In Games: If you were one who told Jessica this was unprofessional, own it & own that...

Originally shared by Brie “Beau” Sheldon

Dear Guy Friends & Colleagues In Games: If you were one who told Jessica this was unprofessional, own it & own that you enabled Mentzer.

https://twitter.com/Delafina777/status/920489843821486080

Do you know WHY you enabled him? Just like how, with that, you enabled ALL harassers and creeps? Because you protected them. Seriously.

When you tell people that raising awareness, even privately, for creepy & sometimes illegal behavior might threaten their careers? That's it. You're saying "If you don't let this continue, if you speak up, you're not worthy. You don't deserve to work. You're a High Risk Candidate."

Just suck it up, right? It doesn't matter if it's slut shaming, victim blaming, groping, or rape, saying something might get you fired. We are sick and tired, in all industries, all aspects of our lives, of being told that we should shut up and take it so we can stay working.

And every single goddamn one of you who had the sick heart to tell a woman she was doing wrong by speaking about this: You are the problem.

Apologize now. Don't wait. Don't waffle. Don't beg out. Apologize to the people you've shamed and scared into silence. Be better, damnit.
https://twitter.com/Delafina777/status/920489843821486080

3 commentaires:

  1. Je n'ai pas suivi ce sont tous ses propos ou ses actes( ou les deux) qui sont mis en lumière ?

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  2. Dans ce cas ci les deux sont difficile à distinguer. Ce sont des propos qui ont des conséquences en terme de décrédibilisation des victimes et de protection de leurs agresseurs.

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  3. Le "dont worry, I'm safe" est particulièrement gerbant

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